Men, here are the real reasons women want you to use a vibrator in bed

First, let’s deal with the objections.

There is nothing emasculating about using a vibrator with your partner. Aura’s research shows that the majority of men want to use a vibrator on their partner, and the majority of women want their partner to use a vibrator on them. Unfortunately, lots of people don’t realise this, so they never suggest it for fear of embarrassment. Don’t be embarrassed, everyone wants fun sex!

Read on to find out why women love it so much when men use a vibrator in bed.

1. Wanting to make her orgasm is sexy

Pulling a vibrator out says, “I know what I’m doing, and what I’m doing is making you cum.”

It says that you’re not intimidated by female sexuality, quite the contrary, you embrace it. That you seek to be its high priest with your two sacred wands of pleasure.

And by god, that’s sexy.

2. Sex toys spice things up

It is often said that variety is the spice of life, and it’s true. Sex toys add a new exciting element to your bedroom adventures which will make these moments more thrilling and pleasurable.

Pro tip, if you’re using Aura’s powerful, luxury vibe on your partner, the head can be used to draw small circles around her clitoris. This will create intense pleasure for your partner, especially when their clitoris is covered in lubricant. For a guide on how to use a vibrator on a woman, click here. 

3. It means she’s pretty much guaranteed to orgasm

You probably know that women almost always need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, but sometimes even when using your hands it doesn’t happen. This is why vibrators are so great. When you use a vibrator she’s going to orgasm ninety nine times out of a hundred.

That not only makes the way you feel inside of her more pleasurable for her, it makes it more pleasurable for you. Since when a woman is building up to an orgasm, her vagina becomes more lubricated, and during orgasm it contracts, which feels great for both of you.

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