Advice
5 things you shouldn't do on a first date
First dates can be daunting. Will you hug when you meet, or kiss on the cheek? Just one, or two cheeks? Oh God, I'm already getting flustered. What will you say? Will you drink too much and pass out in your spicy tomato pasta (don't ask, it was a long time ago, and yes chilli in the eyes really stings)? We at Aura understand. We say relax, you are who you are, love it or leave it. That's what finding the one is all about after all. Finding someone who loves you for being you. But with this being said, it never hurts to show off your best side. After all, you only get to make a first impression once.... So here are our five top tips for a first date: 1. Don't check your phone every few minutes Nothing says, “I’m not interested in you” like checking your phone during a date. It's annoying, and rude. Try and be as present as possible. It's the only way to really enjoy someone's company. 2. Don't only talk about yourself It’s natural to want to impress your date, or to just be a bit nervous - both things that can lead to a bad case of never-stops-talking-itis. But we all know what it's like spending time with someone who only talks about themselves... not fun. Make sure to take the time to ask your date about themselves and really listen to their answers. 3. Don't be rude to waiters This should be a no brainer. Mean is a bad look. 4. Don't leave them alone while you smoke If you smoke and your date doesn’t, popping out for a cigarette while they wait with your stuff, or dragging them out into the cold with you, is never going to come across as charming. After you’ve known each other longer this is less of an issue but on the first date, try to hold out until it’s over or you're both outside naturally. 5. Don't be the only one getting drunk If you’re drunk and your date isn’t, it's probable that only one of you is having a good time - and it’s not them. This goes with rocking up drunk. One or two drinks to steady the nerves is fine, but arriving plastered is a real turn off. And that's it. The main thing is to have fun. Fun is always sexy! If you haven't already, make sure to sign up to Aura's newsletter below. Each week we'll send you great advice on how to have fantastic intimate moments.
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Three sex positions everyone should know (that aren’t missionary)
Missionary is great. We’re not here to shame you if missionary’s your favourite position. But, toast is great too. And you don’t eat toast for every meal. So take your love life from breakfast to banquet with three new positions, courtesy of Aura.
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How to use a massage oil candle
Massage candles can seem a little scary if you’ve never used one before, but they're not. Rubbing the warm massage oil produced by Aura's candles into your partner is one of the best ways to get both of you in the mood. Follow this step by step, illustrated guide for an evening of romance. 1. Light the candle and let the wax melt into warm massage oil 2. Slowly, pour the deliciously warm oil on your or your partner's skin. 3. Rub in the nourishing oil with your hands for an amazing intimate massage. Give it a go, it's easy and fun, and everyone loves a sexy massage! If you haven't already, make sure to sign up to Aura's newsletter below. Each week we'll send you great advice on how to have fantastic intimate moments.
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4 tips to help you feel more confident in the bedroom
There’s nothing worse for your pleasure than feeling insecure in the bedroom. Once you’re in your head, it can be almost impossible to relax enough to enjoy the moment. That’s why Aura’s here with four tips to make you more confident in the bedroom.
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6 Must Read Sex Tips for Giving Her An Orgasm
Nothing beats giving your partner a real leg quivering, back arching orgasm. But 20% of women never orgasm during sex and 75% don't hit the bit 'O' regularly. Red on for Aura’s advice on how to change that, and make sure your partner has the best night of her life…
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Ten mistakes you might be making in bed
We asked thousands of Aura fans what their biggest turn offs were and wow, did you have something to say! At Aura, we love an open, honest conversation about sex, even the sticky bits, so we wanted to share the top ten turn offs.
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Three sex positions every gay man needs to try at least once
Whether you’ve hit a rut and want to spice things up in the bedroom, or you want to blow your new partner’s mind, Aura has a position for you.
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Ladies, here are three ways to mix up your masturbation routine
If you’ve been masturbating for a while, you’ve probably got a go to routine. Something like lie in bed, grab your favourite vibrator, be done in ten minutes tops?
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Five places to enjoy consensual porn
At Aura, we know sex work is real work. And watching porn, alone or with your partner, can be a great way to enjoy and discover yourself sexually.
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