Every year, we tell ourselves we’ll get fit, quit smoking and drink less. And those can be good goals. But they make for a pretty dreary January.
So how about adding some resolutions to your list that you’ll actually enjoy?
Aura has three fun ways to make 2021 a year of better sex...
1. Make a list of things you want to try
If you have a partner, light some candles, pour a glass of er, well not wine if you’re doing dry January, and have a sexy chat about what you want to try, but never have.
Make it a judgement free space to really open up about what you like, and then agree on a couple you both like the sound of to try this year.
If you don’t have a partner, sit down with a notepad and be honest with yourself about what you want. But maybe hide it in your sock drawer, in case of nosy roommates.
2. Embrace masturbation, everyone does it
Masturbating is a great way to discover what you like, and relax. And after 2020, don’t we all deserve a little more time lying back and relaxing?
Lubricant makes masturbation feel even better. It makes everything wet, smooth, and comfortable. So be nice to yourself and use lube this year, if you’re not already.
For women looking for more “wow” factor from their alone time, we recommend our luxury vibrator.
3. Spend more time on foreplay
It can be tempting to skimp on the foreplay. If you’re a man, it’s understandable you want to get right to the main act. And for women, it can be pretty dull if his foreplay game isn’t good.
Good foreplay though makes sex more pleasurable for everyone. Taking the time to build anticipation makes sex more exciting, wetter, increases the chances of orgasm and its eventual intensity.
If your foreplay repertoire is limited to a good make out session, don’t worry. Ask your partner what they’d enjoy. Experiment with light touches around the neck, face and sides of the body. Or, try a sensual massage with our Couple’s Candle.